My stepdad’s kids cut him off. No calls or visits, not even while he battled cancer for the last 5 years. I was the one who cared for him until the end, and he left me everything. At the funeral, his kids demanded a share. One of them glared at me and said, “You don’t deserve a cent. You’re not even blood.”
I just stood there, holding the folded flag from the hospice, feeling my chest tighten. Their voices started to rise, but I stayed silent. Not because I didn’t have anything to say, but because I knew no words could change the truth. I had been there. I saw what it meant to love someone when they had nothing left to give.
My stepdad, Victor, came into my life when I was ten. I still remember how awkward he was at first—trying to bond over old movies and burnt pancakes. He never tried to replace my real dad, who had passed away in an accident. Instead, he just showed up. Quietly. Constantly. Birthday after birthday, football games, school plays, the time I broke my arm—he was there.
His own kids—Marcus, Janine, and Tyler—were older than me. They never accepted him remarrying after their mom died. Even when Victor tried to reconnect, they brushed him off. I remember him writing cards on their birthdays and leaving messages they never returned. He never stopped hoping. Until one day, he did.