Once, there was a woman whose life changed dramatically when she married a wealthy man she thought was a godsend to her family.

She shared on Reddit how this man showered her parents with extravagant gifts, cleared her sister’s credit card debt, and even got her brother a great job in a reputable company. Her in-laws admired him for his generosity, even though he’d been unfaithful.

The first time he cheated was right after she gave birth to their child, Kelly. Feeling vulnerable, she turned to her family for advice. They tried to help, but she found it hard to decide and ended up staying, thinking it was her fault for not being the best wife during her pregnancy.