When Eric suggested it, he said it like he was offering me a compliment.<\/p>\n
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\n\u201cPen, I really think you\u2019re the only person I\u2019d trust with her right now.\u201d<\/p>\n
We were sitting at the kitchen table\u2014the one I\u2019d refinished during lockdown. He was holding a mug he hadn\u2019t washed, wearing a shirt I\u2019d folded. He said it casually, like we were discussing groceries or weekend plans.<\/p>\n
His mother, Julia, had fallen. Hip surgery followed. Rehab. And now she was coming home.<\/p>\n
Not alone.<\/p>\n
She needed help with everything\u2014standing, bathing, meals, medication. And apparently, she needed my company too.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou work from home,\u201d Eric added, sliding the mug toward me as if that settled it.
\n\u201cShe doesn\u2019t want strangers. And honestly, I don\u2019t trust anyone else. You\u2019d do it right. You\u2019d care.\u201d<\/p>\n
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\nThere it was\u2014the compliment wrapped in expectation.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ll help when I can,\u201d he said, which we both knew meant rarely.<\/p>\n
We\u2019d been married fifteen years. I knew the difference between being asked and being cornered.<\/p>\n
So I said yes. Because that\u2019s what I\u2019d always done.<\/p>\n
For five months, I woke before sunrise. I guided Julia to the bathroom, cooked bland breakfasts, adjusted pillows, tracked medication alarms. I squeezed conference calls between caregiving tasks and reheated the same cup of coffee three times before finishing it.<\/p>\n
Julia was never unkind.<\/p>\n
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\n\u201cThank you, sweetheart,\u201d she\u2019d whisper, like she was afraid I\u2019d disappear if she didn\u2019t say it enough.<\/p>\n
Eric, on the other hand, slowly vanished from his own life.<\/p>\n
irst, there were promises.<\/p>\n
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\n\u201cI\u2019ve got the kids tonight.\u201d
\n\u201cI\u2019ll handle dinner tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then excuses.<\/p>\n
\u201cLate call.\u201d
\n\u201cBack-to-back meetings.\u201d<\/p>\n
Until eventually, he just\u2026 wasn\u2019t present. He\u2019d come home, check on the kids, check on Julia like it was a box to tick, then retreat into his office. Some nights, he left again after dark, claiming he needed \u201cquiet\u201d to finish work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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