Making the decision to have children requires a thorough awareness of the obligations involved. It can be difficult, inconvenient, and far from lonely to raise a child. It\u2019s crucial to understand that while many parents look to their friends and family, particularly their parents, for support, this assistance isn\u2019t always available.<\/p>\n
A debate was triggered by a Reddit post that was widely shared:<\/p>\n
After taking maternity leave, a new mother asked her mother for childcare assistance so she could resume her job. Since 1992, her 64-year-old mother has been a stay-at-home mom and has not worked.<\/p>\n
She refused, though, saying she was unwilling to take on the duty again because she had already raised her children. In addition, she advised her daughter to think about remaining at home, as she had done, and letting her partner be the only provider, much like a \u201ctraditional\u201d family, if she really wanted a child.<\/p>\n
It was not financially feasible for this mother to remain at home. She had to go back to work because she was the main provider for their small family. She and her partner were already having a hard time saving money for a bigger place for their growing child, and they were living in a one-bedroom apartment in a pricey city.<\/p>\n
Her mother offered to babysit after she explained their predicament, but only at $20 an hour, with extra late fees if they were late picking up the child.
\nShe also needed bottles, a stroller, a car seat, and extras of<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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