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They never knocked. That was the thing that always got me\u2014the quiet click of a key in our front door and the sudden presence of my in-laws in my kitchen, like the house itself had invited them. Aarav would murmur, \u201cBe nice. They helped us buy this place,\u201d and I\u2019d swallow whatever I was about to say because thirty percent of a down payment felt like thirty percent ownership to everyone but me.<\/p>\n

Yesterday, I came home early and walked straight into a nightmare wearing good manners. His mother had my mail spread open on the coffee table\u2014insurance statements, a specialist bill with my name bolded at the top. My journal sat in her lap like a borrowed library book. His father had our internet provider on speaker, pretending to be Aarav\u2014\u201cYes, this is him\u201d\u2014and asking for a list of \u201crecent device connections.\u201d<\/p>\n

They froze when I stepped into the room. I didn\u2019t yell. I didn\u2019t even put my bag down. I just stood there, keys biting my palm, listening to the roaring in my ears. Aarav tried to bridge the silence with, \u201cThey were just helping organize\u2014\u201d and I looked through him. That night I didn\u2019t sleep, not from fear, but from a fury so bright it kept the dark away.<\/p>\n

I should\u2019ve seen it long before. Priya and Rajan came with the house, like a very involved home warranty. They rearranged my kitchen \u201cfor better flow,\u201d brought curtains they \u201cknew would look nicer,\u201d and installed a security system without asking, complete with a lecture on how \u201cfamilies look out for each other.\u201d They\u2019d stop by with bags of groceries and re-stock my fridge like a pantry manager. If I asked for a heads-up next time, Priya would say, \u201cYou\u2019re welcome,\u201d and move on. Aarav would tell me they meant well. I kept trying to believe him.<\/p>\n

After the mail, belief stopped being an option. I started clocking their visits and leaving before they arrived. Let them play house with their son if they wanted; I needed oxygen.<\/p>\n

Then my friend canceled brunch, and the universe sent me home at 1 p.m. to find my mother-in-law elbow-deep in my spice cabinet, tossing out jars while narrating the dates aloud like a judge. Rajan sat at the table with a laptop open to a spreadsheet I didn\u2019t recognize, tapping numbers with the confidence of a man who\u2019d never asked permission. Aarav stood nearby, arms crossed, eyes on the floor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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